巴尼在婚礼当天遇见一见钟情的女孩，跑来找他爸要some paternal wisdom,他爹如是说，look，you're talking to someone who knows how hard marriage can be.in the beginning,it's all briskets and blow jobs and la-di-da,ain't life grand?but soon enough,real life starts,right?you come home from work,all she wants to do is talk,all you want to do is screw,right?and before long,every day is like pushing an avocado through a cheese grater.it all feels like you're holding a pile of shit.